Focus to the point where you can no longer see anything but love, and you know without a doubt that you are the luckiest man on earth to be have this woman as your wife.5.It’s not your job to change or fix her Your job is to love her as she is with no expectation of her ever changing.After losing a woman that I loved, and a marriage of almost 16 years, here’s the advice I wish I would have had:1. This is the most important and sacred treasure you will ever be entrusted with. Never forget that, and NEVER GET LAZY in your love. Protect your own heart Just as you committed to being the protector of her heart, you must guard your own with the same vigilance.Love yourself fully, love the world openly, but there is a special place in your heart where no one must enter except for your wife.Atrophy is the natural process when you stop working a muscle, just as it is if you stop working on your relationship. Find common goals, dreams and visions to work towards.18. Keep that space always ready to receive her and invite her in, and refuse to let anyone or anything else enter there.3.
Give her space The woman is so good at giving and giving, and sometimes she will need to be reminded to take time to nurture herself.get frustrated or angry at her, it is only because it is triggering something inside of YOU. When you feel those feelings take time to get present and to look within and understand what it is inside of YOU that is asking to be healed.You were attracted to this woman because she was the person best suited to trigger all of your childhood wounds in the most painful way so that you could heal them…when you heal yourself, you will no longer be triggered by her, and you will wonder why you ever were.8.Allow your woman to When she’s sad or upset, it’s not your job to fix it, it’s your job to HOLD HER and let her know it’s ok. Fill her soul everyday…learn her love languages and the specific ways that she feels important and validated and CHERISHED. To carry her away in the power of your masculine presence, to consume her and devour her with your strength, and to penetrate her to the deepest levels of her soul.