Like many other guys who write you, I've been trying to develop the confident-funny attitude.I've watched most of the comedians and movies you suggested in your book.
I know that Asian American males have always had huge gripes about white women and even women of their own race who will NOT date them because of the stereotypical (nerdy, needy, backwards, or arrogant, bad to women, philanderers... The main sign that a woman gives off is VERY simple to spot: SHE KEEPS TALKING TO YOU. She'll start looking around, acting bored out of her skull, or moving around in an uncomfortable manner.
Anyway, later I saw a blonde that I had talked to earlier. I went over and tapped her on the shoulder and said "Hey can I talk with you a minute? She came over, I used your email/phone # material, and gave her pen and paper to write it down.
You should have seen the looks on the faces of the three guys who were just talking to her. I got 4 numbers that night and have been out with 2 of those women.
However, I'm Asian/American and shorter than the average white male. but I have no clue whatsoever as to what signs a woman will give off when she is feeling attracted, I keep doing silly, stupid things like um...
On the internet, I've had many comments how great I seem until they learn that I'm Asian-- then I don't hear from them again. backing off afterward 'cause I'm not sure what her reaction meant, which I am positive is a problem.