A standard does not mean a legalistic system or a social straight jacket.
A standard is a set of moral and social guidelines that you go by.
Like the public school dress code, the world has low standards and expectations for dating and marriage.
When I say something is "worldly, " I want you to know exactly what I mean. If someone would argue that point, I would say, "If it is just the company of the opposite sex you are after and not sexual stimulation, hold your sister's hand " Dating, as I have defined and described it, is not in the Bible in word, principle or example. Courting= Courting is young men and women seeking each other out, under their parents' or guardians' supervision, for the purpose of finding a spouse.This includes many dating activities such as kissing, touching (forerunners to sex), petting (sex with your clothes on), or dancing (sex with your clothes on standing up). Certain dress and hairstyles are sensual because they make a sexual statement and stimulate the flesh. It is worldly to use someone to gratify yourself, or ruin your testimony or someone else's just to satisfy yourself. They say things like: "Different strokes for different folks," "That's just your opinion, " "That's your interpretation," or "You can't legislate morality. This paper no doubt contains opinions and interpretations. ) Mankind is no longer innocent or naturally obedient to God. The sin nature of all men and women, boys and girls, has a great bearing upon the subject of dating or courting. The fall affected man's whole being, spirit, soul and body.Christian young ladies need to understand that certain sensual dress and frizzy hairstyles say to a boy, "Try me, I might. That is what makes them popular and exciting, isn't it? It is worldly to dishonor God, your family, and your church, just to enjoy some sensual pleasure. However, it is a Biblical study and a doctrinal statement. Salvation "quickens " or regenerates the spirit, saves the soul, but it does not regenerate or save the flesh, The flesh is the seat of sin.Courtship crashed back onto the cultural landscape in a big way several years ago when Joshua Harris wrote the book These are good parameters. The heart of courtship is the notion that you won’t just date for fun but will pursue romance with marriage as an end goal. First Corinthians tells us to flee from sexual immorality. Limiting time alone is a great way to run from the temptation to get overly physical.I’ve been around a lot of girls who court and a lot of families who want their children to court. Clearly, the basic principles of courtship are so important to living a lifestyle of purity.