But at the same time you get a man who wants to take care of his family, is willing to work hard for everyone’s happiness and loves kids.
Someone who knows why he is dating you and will let you know it too. If you meet a great Chinese guy then go for it, don’t let the stereotypes or someone’s bad experiences hold you back.
I dated a Chinese guy back in Finland already and have been living in China for three years now.
I dated one Chinese guy for two years, but it wasn’t meant to be.
Right now (October 2013) I’m living together with my Cantonese boyfriend and his parents.
There will be hardships, misunderstandings and compromises has to be made, more than if you dated and married someone from your own country.Parents have the final say Wether your Chinese boyfriend will continue to be with you or will marry you depends on his parents.If parents say no, then it usually is the end of the relationship sooner or later.You two might be able to work it out with the parents when they get to know you better, but parental acceptance is important even when both are Chinese.If you two are 25 or older and the parents agree you being together, they will start asking when you two get married.