It’s easy to see the warning signs of an unhealthy relationship, if you know what to look for.
First, anything that makes you feel uncomfortable or fearful is a clear red flag.
During arguments, he often puts his beliefs or behavior on a moral or logical high ground to yours. Yes, this kind of posturing is a sign of an abuser and a very delusional one at that.
Where selfishness becomes a problem is when everything revolves around how it affects one individual, with no consideration for the other person.
Any type of imbalance of power or controlling behavior in a relationship is unhealthy.
Any time one person views the other as unequal or inferior, there is an imbalance of power.
They often may humiliate you in front of others, though some may be concerned with how others view them and criticize in private to appear kind and caring to others. Hyde do not belong in a relationship, and that kind of volatile and unpredictable behavior is very unhealthy.
Anytime someone makes you feel as though you are not good enough, intelligent enough, attractive enough or that your ideas are stupid or worthless, the warning bells should be going off. It can be very confusing and mentally draining to try to deal with sudden shifts in another person’s mood.