But don’t take my word for it…get a handle on this by going out there and proving it to yourself.I suggest picking a day and jumping in, connecting with a few great women online first, or just going straight out to a coffee shop, the mall, wherever.It’s also important to conquer your fears of rejection by not setting yourself up for failure.Don’t seek out people who are unavailable, try asking a friend to set you up on a blind date, start a new activity to meet other people and update or get your profile on an internet dating site to increase your chances of finding other singles.1) Conquer your Fear of Rejection The fear of rejection is a natural feeling for most people.You want to be loved, liked or even just wanted but if you let what other people think ruin your self-image it’s time to let go and start controlling your own happiness.But, in the end, MOST guys spend MOST of their time on the “sidelines.” They never truly get in the game, also known as “putting themselves out there,” with the energy and commitment necessary to succeed with a truly great woman. Because they’re afraid they’ll ultimately be rejected.With that in mind, here’s how to eliminate the paralyzing fear and anxiety that’s standing between you and the woman of your dreams: Understand The “Worst-Case” Scenario I recommend every man ask himself this: “Why do I fear rejection and what could happen that’s so devastating it’s not even worth trying?
Beside the fact that nothing improves performance like practice, all of this real-world “evidence” about what really happens will become a brand new reality to you. Visualize SUCCESS (And Its Rewards) Once a man escapes the destructive habit of imagining “devastating” rejection, he needs to “see” the reason for approaching great women in the first place.
Talk with your partner about your fears and ask for help to try and resolve them.
In any relationship if you make a commitment to someone you risk the partnership ending at some point, but if you don’t trust your judgment in the other person and give the relationship a chance you may never be with someone and you’ll end up alone anyway.
If you fear rejection, intimacy, abandonment or commitment, you aren’t alone.
It’s normal at some point in your life to harbor these feelings and, in fact, once you accept and know what your fears are you can begin to deal with and conquer them to make this your best year yet.