However you do it, be conscious of the costs involved and try to apportion them in a fair manner.
Keep in mind that the tensions that arise now are opportunities to strengthen your relationship for the future. Those of us who've tried can all attest: it's haaaaaard. So rarely does one cliche so succinctly sum up something.For instance, unless you're looking for a casual, non-exclusive relationship, at some point, one of you is going to have to move.That can add a whole lot of stress to your already strained couplehood. Are you evaluating whether one of you will move, and if so, does that mean marriage?