Now, by teasing her first, all of a sudden she feels (from your words and actions) that you might be more challenging. Maybe you’re not just another guy out there looking to get laid tonight.Just find one thing about her that you can tease her about as an introduction.But wanting a woman who’s 15 – 20 yrs younger is ok, right?Yet as soon as a older woman wants a younger man, say 5 or 10 years, all of a sudden we’re Cougars. Personally, an older man who thinks he needs a much younger woman, has some serious issues. By sharing it in the comments section below you’ll help out some other seniors.REPLY I’ve been on senior dating sites off and on for several years.
I call this technique "Tease to Please", and it works because it short-circuits a woman's usual defense mechanisms against meeting 'strange' men.
I had been learning songs on guitar for years, just by getting the sheet music and copying the notes, so why would this be any different? Lesson 1: Attraction is Not Something You're Taught. You just need to learn from someone that knows how to explain it right. But the funny thing about attraction is that it does work by predictable laws.
First, it's not the same as just learning the "notes" on sheet music. You need someone who's been through all the same things you have. Next, I learned that as much as I'd wanted to MAKE women interested in me, it doesn't work that way. On the other hand, when I learned the right steps to build attraction naturally, I didn't have to do all that needy and insecure stuff I used to - which never worked, anyway. Learn the laws, and you understand the "hidden code..." And then you'll get more and more success.
Out of all the first dates I’ve had, finally met one guy who I actually enjoyed.
After 4 dates, he decided to call it quits with no explanation.