Plus, as dating can be a daunting experience, help cut through those nerves by arranging to meet up in familiar territory. Although, maybe avoid your normal Saturday night pub, as bumping into your mates could be a little distracting on your date. Be confident Women value confidence highly when it comes to choosing a guy. Now all you have to worry about is turning up on time. Make date plans for somewhere you’ll feel comfortable You might think that you’re being a gentleman by letting your date decide where you go on your date, but women often like to see that you can take control.On your first date, you don’t want to get into an in-depth conversation about why you don’t enjoy your job, or other issues you’ve been having.Women want a guy who can make them laugh and ask the right questions.You may not be 6ft tall with a 6-pack, but it’s more attractive to a woman to show that you’re comfortable in your own skin and happy being you. Don’t do all the talking On your date, make sure you don’t do all the talking.Try to keep what you have to say short and concise. If this date goes well, there will be lots more opportunities to share your stories in the future.Reassure her that your past is history and that you want to spend your time getting to know her instead. Turn off your phone There’s nothing more annoying than phones ringing whilst trying to spend quality time out with friends, and it’s just as irritating on a date. Yes, in films they always leave it a couple of days to contact each other, but this is 2016.
If your date does bring up the subject, try to keep answers short (without appearing suspicious).She will sense your confidence as you talk passionately about it.Many people may also be shy about their appearance.Don’t be scared of pauses and help mix up the conversation by asking your date questions.Listening is important, as it shows that you are interested in what she has to say. Keep the conversation fun Try to keep your conversation light-hearted.