Related: How to Pleasure a Woman—the Guide to Becoming a Master Lover “My profile described my deep love of grotesque horror films,” says Cat, a 36-year-old writer from Columbus, Ohio.
One guy sent her a link to an upcoming scary movie marathon, which became their first date. Kaitlyn, a 32-year-old grad student in New York City, could tell she and her fiancé had a lot in common when he referenced her literature Ph. program in his OKCupid introduction.“He asked me what time period of literature I studied and told me about his thesis in literature,” she says.
So this month, we're exploring everything you want and need to know about how women get turned on now. Tailor it to their interests or their work, or even one of their photos.Ask open questions that require more than a ‘yes’ or ‘no’ reply, because these are more interesting to answer.If they love a certain stand-up comic, use the beginning of one of their jokes (Google is your friend at times like these).Create something that’s witty and warm and demonstrates you’ve read their profile, as opposed to just flicking through their photos. Research has shown that people warm towards hearing their own name in conversation.