You have to invest a bit more time and effort into your OKC profile; and you can answer questions about sex and relationships and what you're looking for; which helps filter out the sleezes.
You get the occasional sleeze but then you get lovely gamer boys too, like my boyfriend :)You can't have my boyfriend though.
Invested in sites like Kongregate but still open to console gaming. I may be American, but I'll take a rugby player over a football star any day. POF has actual categories associated with "geek" "gamer" and "techie". We are all just to busy with full time jobs and family.
Personally I can only tell you the lesbian experience on the site isn't like that but from what I gather from my straight friends it's all "girl getting hot dogs thrown at face .
gif" : PAfter a three month dry spell I want to say that doesn't sound terrible, but in reality it'd be overwhelming. I'm a bit on a budget crunch at the moment, with buying books for myself this semester along with a slew of other things. He was the very first date I went on, and he's the best thing to ever happen to me. I specifically said I need to date a gamer on my profile.
Edit: Sorry, I should mention that because it is just starting, there aren't many people on there (yet hopefully!
)For more immediate solutions to your problem...hm, how about joining nerd-like clubs or going to conventions in real life?