People have always been astonished when I tell them about my living situation.No, I’m not homeless, and no, I don’t live in a share house. In fact, I’m happily married and have been for the last 11 years.I asked, “Why can’t we just live apart and still see each other most days? At first he was a little shocked but as we started to get busier with work and grandkids, it didn’t matter! So it’s been 11 years and I still get my private time alone and I can decorate in loud, bright colours like I love to. Helena Bonham Carter And what about our sex life, you say? Arriving on his door step in a silk robe unannounced is definitely my idea of fun.
We’d go to the shops together, we’d go out with our friends together…basically we didn’t have lives that allowed us to be anything but attached at the hip.
Triangles exist simply because a problem is not being resolved in a marriage.
Two people get married and have marital problems, instead of resolving those problems either by fixing the relationship or ending it, which by the way can be a valid resolution of a problem, a third party is brought into the relationship, and now you have a triangle.
I had a husband for 26 years who I lived with and had 4 children with.
He was wonderful but I couldn’t help but feel stifled in our relationship.