Eric and I get flooded with questions from readers asking: “Is he serious about me? ” “He says he cares but he’s not acting like it.” This game of he loves me, he loves me not is exhausting and can ravage your self-esteem.
Think about how much time, energy, and heartache you would save if you could determine if he’s the kind of guy who will commit right off the bat.
I have noticed the following dating profile about a month ago, and I decided to post it here with very minor changes, as I consider this the most interesting and overall – the best female online dating profile I have seen so far, or at least one of the very best.
Some would consider this profile to be too negative and opinionated, but I strongly believe that “playing it safe” is not the right way to go when it comes to online dating.
If he isn’t getting out of a relationship, then it’s very likely his strong affections are a sign of some kind of attachment issues or self-esteem problems. If you’re in the early stages of dating, try not to see him more than 2-3 times a week.
If he’s a too intimate too soon kind of guy he’s going to try to see you more frequently, say no!
The first is he wants to get you into bed, and he comes across as being extremely into you to expedite the process.
He looks deep into your eyes, he tells you he’s never felt so strongly about a girl so fast, he’s extremely affectionate.
Here is an actual example from a profile: “I disapprove of joining cults and cover bands.
the Berkeley Beard, anal-retentive chinstrap or Flavr Savr), high maintenance egos, military men/law enforcement, and guys who spend more than an hour a day at a gym.” The above writing style is not for everyone, and you might consider it to be too harsh and not reflecting of who you are. I am interested in smart asses and challenging repartee.
Obviously, there are many ways to write a great dating profile, and the above was just one of the.
You’ll know if you’re dealing with a guy with issues if he doesn’t respect your decision not to hang out all the time.
If he pouts, whines, guilts you, begs, then there’s something going on. TYPE 2: The guy who says he doesn’t want a relationship right off the bat (or won’t call you his girlfriend when it comes to poop or get off the pot time) It really just means he can’t see himself being in a relationship with .