I’m used to it, despite the societal pressure that comes with being unmarried and childless at 32.
Like Jamila Woods sang, “I’m not lonely, I’m alone.
Instead of actual results with other human beings, I’ve spent more time instead considering how my photos look, what my bio says (and doesn’t say) and should I display my top Spotify artists? The process can be draining, especially with your phone at your fingertips.The men sat down next to us and we'd chat for four minutes each, and then the guys would get up and move one seat down.Bear in mind, if you have any people skills whatsoever, four minutes goes by really fast, so theoretically, there's not enough time for it to get awkward if you don't hit it off. It was fun, there were appetizers, and the hostesses were lovely (and all foreign model/actress types).As we don’t use whistles - our hosts gently tap the lads on the shoulder to let them know it is time to move on.Dates write down whom they fancy and if they have a match - they get notified the next day with details.